We had an amazing year here in Texas. The highlight, of course, was having our rainbow baby. Living a life without one of your children is so confusing and painful, having Vesper did not diminish my missing Trek, but she has softened the edges of the pain, and in a way put my rose colored glasses back on.

I skipped a lot of the year on the blog since I have been lost in Peyton, Conner, Trek and Vesper land over here. So I will sum it all up to catch myself up, and have a fresh start for the year 2015!


I spent most of last winter in the hospital, throwing up breakfast, and gaining weight. It would have been horrifying if it wasn’t for the fact the cutest little girl ever was making me do it. Growing Vesper made me a mess, but her perfect, so it was totally worth it:)

I turned 30 which was fun and strange. We did so much, and so much happened in our 20’s, part of me wanted to stay there, but the other part is very excited to see what this next decade brings.

The boys and I spent that month exploring the island since my morning sickness lessened. It also warmed up a bit, (after spending most of the winter in our freezing RV!), so we had fun getting out and about.


We spent February staying close to the house on the cold days, and on the warm ones getting out and about. I remember thinking hard about how it was my last few days to be able to give my 2 big boys all my attention, and really enjoying my time with them.


We spent March getting ready for Vesper, going on field trips, visiting Granny and Granddaddy’s farm, and I had 4 photos shoots. I did 3 for other families, and a kind blog reader volunteered to come to Galveston to do my maternity ones! I have been able to do a couple more photo shoots for other families since Vesper has been born, but it was tricky doing them in between Vesper’s feeding schedule-hehe-you must feed the baby!


Is a bittersweet month for us. We had 2 of our amazing 4 children in this month, but sadly Trek is no longer here for us to celebrate. We decided to go to Great Wolf Lodge for Conner and Trek’s birthday this year to help with the emotions of this month. And as it so happened (as it did when Trek was alive too), Easter was also the same week at Great Wolf Lodge:)

We also got to celebrate the addition of baby #4 with a beautiful rainbow baby shower. It was so special to be surrounded by so much love and care on that special day.

April is also baseball season!!! The boys love baseball so much. We were lucky they were on the same team this year since they were born 19 months apart. They have a built in baseball buddy and are always playing baseball together in our front yard.


May!!! This month held the day that is tied (with 3 others) for the best day of my life!!! Vesper was born!!


We will just call June-“Baby days”. I’m pretty sure we never left the house and we just snuggled and got to know the newest member of our family.

In June, we also celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary! I can honestly say that I love Jarrett more and more each day. If you times that by 10 years of days, then add how much I loved him at our wedding, then I love him a WHOLE bunch:)

And in June is Trek’s Angelversary. This was our 3rd year without our son and brother. We are always missing him, loving him, and thinking of him.


What a fun month! Vesper and I got to attend the Wylder Nation Gala in Colorado, the boys learned how to surf, and we had lots of time at the beach.


We had a back-to-(home)school party with our friends and Vesper turned 3 months old!


This is a very special month for us-Peyton was born!!! He turned 9 years old!! Peyton is a joy to say the least, he is handsome, kind, thoughtful, talented, and just an amazing little boy. He really wanted a lap top this year. As soon as Jarrett got wind of this request, well, the Lego party we had planned with all his friends was out the window, and a fancy gaming laptop, complete with gaming party, was planned and ordered:) He invited Uncle Chet and Uncle Jordan and asked to go shopping for all the junk food I never let him eat! Peyton later declared his birthday the best day ever-it was a lot of fun.


Vesper’s 1st Halloween and pumpkin patch!


Thanksgiving, Christmas decorating, and Vesper’s 6 month photo shoot. Holidays are so special!


The boys are in a basketball league, Jarrett is coaching both their teams, and they are loving it. This was Vesper’s 1st Christmas and first time to Great Wolf Lodge! The boys asked to go on a trip in place of some of their presents, so we invited my sister and parents and had an amazing family vacation! The boys got metal costume swords from Santa, so they were kind of freaking out this magical Christmas morning:)

Vesper wearing Trek’s 1st Christmas pjs on her 1st Christmas (plus a hair bow:)


Happy New Year 2015!!!

I hope its wonderful and full of lots of love and laughter!

xoxo, Chelsea

Thanksgiving 2014

We decided to have a little staycation for Thanksgiving this year. We had family close by who we love, but we felt like being just our little family for this holiday. Jarrett gets a special rate at some hotels his company owns in Galveston, so it was an easy choice of where to stay. We got an amazing ocean view room at the Hilton for an amazing deal. We also decided to eat at our favorite fancy restaurant that was open for Thanksgiving. It’s Conner’s favorite, he goes nuts when we go.

We have had 3 Thanksgivings since Trek died. They have all been non-traditional so far, and it has seemed right. It always takes me by surprise when the holidays come around how missing him is magnified. I don’t know if its the music or the magic or what, but it has taken me by surprise the last 2 years. It always hits me around Thanksgiving and the fog last until after Christmas. I miss him so much. I wish I had a 3 year old little boy to chase around and get Christmas presents for.

Trek’s 1st and only Thanksgiving in Maui in 2011

Thanksgiving in Penang, Malaysia 2012-our 1st without Trek

Thanksgiving 2013-I have no pictures b/c we lived in the RV, I was sick as a dog with morning sickness, and we went to Denny’s-haha. The boys still talk about how amazing it was-Jarrett and I not so much:)

Thanksgiving 2014 at The Grotto

We go hard core when we stay in hotels. We are the laziest bums, we take hot baths and wear the robes and slippers, and we drink gallons of coffee. We even got to swim in the outdoor heated pool twice. It was a lot of fun. I had to call down and order a pound of sugar to keep up with these boys’ coffee consumption:) 

our ocean view of the island we live on

We had such a wonderful meal that night. There was an extra chair at our table (by Peyton) and we knew it was no accident and it was for baby Trek. We do a toast at all our family meals, and as always we toasted “to Trek and a happy life”.

I was not prepared the next morning when Vesper woke up at her usual time of 5:30 am babbling loudly-hehe. We had no where to go as to not wake up everyone else, so I made her a bathtub play pen and we hung out in there for an hour:)

We just had to order breakfast in bed the next morning.

toasting their coffees getting ready to play our new board game

I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving and are looking forward to Christmas as we are! On that note, I rave about this every year, if you have Santa-believing children you must do Portable North Pole. (www.portablenorthpole.com). Its soooo amazing! Santa sends your child a personalized email video, where he says their name, opens his book to a picture of them, and then tells them if they are on the naughty or nice list. We have been doing the free version for the past 5 years and its amazing. I did do the bundle package this year though which is a longer video with more pictures, and a call from Santa for unlimited kids. (it was $9.99 and I found a coupon code to make it $8.99). We had Santa call them last year on Christmas Eve and it was soo cool! The free version is amazing, its such a fun thing to do:) Have a great day!!!

6 months and baby’s 1st Halloween

We have been having a wonderful winter season so far this year. I had to go shopping for my first winter clothes in 8 years. It was fun, but also a little sad. I would be happy in flip flops and tanks my entire life. Thankfully the cold spell we had that sent me to the mall for boots and a jacket was short lived, and I have been in shorts and sundresses ever since-whew.

We have been enjoying the winter festivities whenever we can. So much fun to be had during the holidays!

Vesper is 6 months old! What a joy she is. Her along with her brothers make my heart explode!!! I love them all so much, I am so thankful for all the time I get with them. I am with these guys non-stop and I still miss them when they sleep. I love all their sleepy heads in the morning:)

Vesper can sit by herself for a few seconds and is starting to do push ups working on her crawl. She flips on her stomach on purpose now and pushes up. We have a lot of baby proofing that needs to be done asap!

She is still nursing about every hour or so. We started her on some baby foods, she has had a jar here and there, but a few seemed to upset her stomach, so I have been very slow in introducing them and not very often.

She babbles and laughs and is a general cutie that makes us all crazy with love. The boys are always carrying her around and smothering her with kisses. They had a cold last week and could not kiss her lips-you would have thought I stole all their Legos-they were so upset-hehe.

We went to Iceland at a local museum and froze to death while simultaneously having fun. It was tons of ice made into an entire Sponge Bob Squarepants wonderland. They had a team of Chinese ice sculptures fly in and they have been working on it for months. It was pretty impressive, even though after entering the 9 degree tent I had fleeting worries that if I got separated from the boys, they could end up frozen to death in a corner of the place-it was almost unbearable. Just shoot me now if Jarrett ever moves me North.

Conner was unphased by the cold and wanted to go down the ice slide forever. Peyton, Vesper, and I took a quick tour and ran to the exit. Jarrett stayed with Conner until he too could no longer stand it:)

Homeschooling is going smoothly. I finally feel like we are catching up from our 2 year sabbatical travelling. I have found if we do it first thing in the morning, we are all at our best. Vesper is also an excellent student, or maybe she is the teacher, who knows.

This precious boy asked to hold Vesper while she was sleeping. He stayed in there 30 minutes snuggling her. I just made the boys photo books of them with Trek. I made them each one and they only have pictures of each brother and Trek. So Peyton’s only has pictures of him and Trek, and Conner’s only of him and Trek. Most of Conner’s pictures with Trek looked like the one above. He is such a little lovey.

This Grover doll was Trek’s. Conner sleeps with it every night, he wanted to share it with Vesper, so she could be with Trek too. It actually reminds us a lot of Trek. Grover has thin arms and legs, a perfectly round cute head and a round belly, just like our teeny guy.

Vesper’s feeding center

the boys put together her high chair all by themselves:)

1st food-sweet potatoes

the boys raiding our neighbors dumpster-hehe, they have great plans for a fort

Auntie made Vesper a bow holder!

Vesper was the Little Mermaid for Halloween, so Jarrett and I dressed up to match her-Ariel and Prince Eric. Peyton and Conner were ninjas-the coolest and more deadly ones around.

We met my sister and her family at Chipolte ($3 burritoes if you are in costume!) and then went trick or treating


nursing little mermaid and trick-o-treating:)

and then daddy babywearing her to sleep:)

our homeschool group beach combing

this baby loves her daddy

We packed some boxes for Operation Christmas Child which was a lot of fun!

Vesper’s 1st tree decorating!

I hope you are having a wonderful holiday season also!!!

5 months with a teeny little beauty and her prince (x4)

Vesper is 5 months old (she is actually 6 right now, but for the blog’s sake, this week she is 5 months and next week she will be 6 months when I post those pics:) How fun all this baby stuff is?! The house is full of baby gear, every where we walk we trip over some pink toy, and no one is complaining. This baby loves her toys! Peyton loved toys, Conner and Trek loved the boobs and nursed all day, and we have come full circle to another toy baby. She will actually fuss and wiggle in your arms until you put her down on her play mat and stay there for a whole hour! It freaked me out at first after the last 2 babies. I used to only get things done in nap time, now we homeschool when Vesper is playing with her toys! It makes our house very relaxing-thanks Vesper!

5 months!!

Vesper weights 14 lbs which is a little on the small size, but perfectly healthy.

She is still in size 1 diapers and 0-3 months clothes, but she is pushing out of them. I will have to (with tears in my eyes) pack them away next month I am sure.

She rolls, rolls, and rolls all over the place. I wish we had carpet, so I could let her be a free bird. But since we don’t I just cover the floors with quilts and put pillows along the edges.

She is babbling and can say the syllables “ma-ma” and “da-da” and a few others, so its a race now to see which word she will actually say talking 1st! Jarrett works with her everyday to look at him and say “da-da”. We have a bunch of guidelines in place in order for it to “count”, its a fierce competition. He thinks he will win, but I know I will-muaahahahaha! We have to catch it on video or have the other person there to witness and she has to do it at least 3 times looking at either “ma-ma” or “da-da”-haha-wish me luck! Peyton and Conner said “da-da” first at around a year old. I am hoping for an earlier talker and a “ma-ma” first:)

She is still nursing great, but she is so cool about it. I really don’t think she knows I have milk under my shirt, or even realizes when she is hungry. I know her babbles when she is and have to work with her to get nursing and then she is like “oh yeah, I need to eat”. Its crazy after 3 boys who only associated me with milk and nursed all freakin day long-hehe:) She won’t take a bottle, so she is the cutest 3rd wheel on all our dates still.

best big brothers ever (and soo handsome)

she loves her swing, and since it is still in the 70’s here in Texas we spend a lot of time in it:)

Conner dressed her and took this picture because he wanted to do a photo shoot:)

her look of concentration face-get them toys

Conner sewing a present for his cousin on my new machine

Conner photo bomb

she is looking at Conner in this photo:)

Looking at Peyton, he was helping get her 5 month photo, but it never worked out, so we had to do a redo the next day

homeschooling with baby

we had an Olympic school day, Conner won. They beg everyday to do it again:) 

she does her lips like that when she concentrates on her toys or pulling your hair

hehehe, I love this photo. I looked down and she was sound asleep!

It reminded me of this picture of Trek. We were out to eat and I looked down and he was sound asleep:)

picture by Conner


Vesper’s Birth Story


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My entire pregnancy with Vesper was all new and so very familiar at the same time. Most days I knew exactly what to expect. I felt the sames joys and quirks of my other 3 pregnancies, and then other days, I was in an alien body. Emotionally, I was ecstatic to be having a healthy baby (no Niemann Pick Type A), excited for the newness of a girl (first one after 3 amazing little boys), and relishing my last pregnancy. While I was happy and content with all the above, these things also had a flip side. We spent the first 16 weeks of the pregnancy getting the baby tested for NPA and then waiting and waiting-agonizingly so-for the results. The girl part-ok, there were no down sides-just shopping and Barbie-pedicure-tutu daydreaming! But the last pregnancy part-yes, I was such a boob about it! I love being pregnant, I love the baby part even more, its hard to end that chapter of motherhood.

5 weeks pregnant

And then I turned 30 during this pregnancy, gained 45 lbs (my most yet by over 15 lbs), had my highest blood pressure of all 4 pregnancies, and felt the loss of Trek all the more with all the babyness in the air.

It was amazing, I’d do it all again in a heartbeat. Somedays I felt like a mother earth goddess blooming and growing life, but some parts, and some days, were very hard, it was my first pregnancy to feel a little “off” sometimes.

8 weeks

So, when I thought about the birth I wanted to have for Vesper, I was very open minded. For the first time, I even had fleeting thoughts that if I ended up with a c-section I would not have been sad. Previously I would have been devastated. The worries of having a perfect birth, felt like too much to add to the emotions I was already having.

10 and 12 weeks

I just wanted a baby. I had my magical birth with Trek, no medications, no medical team, in the balmy breeze on Maui, outside, with just Jarrett-pure magic. I did not need to recreate it, I was happy giving that to Trek and letting him have it. That being said, I still read all my natural birthing books, and hoped for a simple, drug free birth.

4 months

I felt little need to discuss my birth plans with my doctor, which was nice because I had a 10 page birth plan with Trek! We had spent the last few months getting to know her, she felt like a friend, and I knew she would respect my wishes. I wanted the boys there, and she agreed, I knew everything else would be perfect.

5 months pregnant with our 2nd Texan (Peyton is our other one:)

I knew I could be induced because of my high blood pressure. And if I had to have all the things that usually went along with induction and high blood pressure-pitocin, magnesium, catheter-that I would be fine with pain medication, whether through an IV or an epidural (I had both with Peyton and Conner). If I went into labor on my own, and it was similar to Trek’s, then I would be fine again with no pain medication.

my hospital stay at 20 weeks for high blood pressure

5 and 6 months pregnant

my first hairbows and baby dresses!!!

7 months 

our Rainbow baby shower!

8 months-getting closer!!

her corner in her/our room

 I went into hard core nesting at 34 weeks. It felt premature, but it was intense. I shopped, re-decorated, re-organized, scrubbed, washed everything that was machine washable and some things that were not, and scrubbed again. I finished it all up the day before my 36 week appt. with my ob-gyn. I was relieved and planned to spend the next week meditating, soaking up the sun at the beach, playing with Peyton and Conner, and working through any feelings I needed to concerning having a baby after losing one less than 2 years before. I was excited for that next week.

I went into my appt. and got hooked up to NST machine to check on the baby, like I had been doing 2 times a week for the past couple of months. My blood pressure was higher than normal, but I was so used to high readings at this point, I did not think twice about it. A few minutes later, Dr. Haver (my ob) came in and said she was taking us over to the hospital, that my blood pressure was too high and could turn into pre-eclampsia at this point. So Jarrett, the boys, and I walked over (it was in the same building), and got re-hooked up to all the machines to keep watch on the baby and my blood pressure.

waiting to see if today was the day!

My sister, Amanda, came and picked up the boys until we knew if the baby was coming that day or not. The plan was if my blood pressure went down, then we would induce the following Friday when the baby was 37 weeks, but if it stayed high, we would induce that day. Of course, it was no coincidence that Dr. Haver, a few times a year, had a 24 hours shift at the hospital. This was the beginning of one such shift, and was in the back of my mind. I really wanted her to deliver me, I trusted her completely.

Jarrett and me waiting all day to see if our baby was coming:) 

We went into the hospital in the morning on Friday, May 16th. And I was monitored all day. My bp fluctuated from high to super high, so around 10 pm, Dr. Haver came in and said we were having a baby that day.

I had no idea what to expect this time. It was weird. With Peyton and Conner, it was simple, I wanted an epidural and anything else they wanted to give me, so it was very straight forward. I went to the hospital with both (induction with Peyton for high bp and normal labor with Conner) and a few hours later I was holding a precious baby. Trek, you all know that story, it just happened:) But with Vesper I did not know what I wanted. The dr. checked me and I was dilated to a big fat zero! This scared me, I couldn’t see how, if my body was literally not primed for this baby, I could have her any time soon. Dr. Haver was much more confident than me, which helped.

I asked my dr. what the plan was. She said she would use a cervix ripening agent to open me up first. She put that in me (inserted a pill right into my cervix manually), and about 2 hours later, I was dilated to a 1. My goodness! I was thinking-“we will be here all day”-ha!

the beginnings of labor

I did my Trek meditation during that hour. I turned on Chad Van Herk’s “Footprints”, our song for Trek, and listened to it on repeat. I would close my eyes and talk to Trek, and then open them to see his beautiful face in the picture I brought. It was just what I needed to start this labor.

She then used a Foley balloon. It’s a long catheter tube thingy they put inside of you, and then fill with a saline solution to enlarge it inside of you, right past your cervix. There are no drugs or medications involved here, just good ol’ manual stretching! It actually did not hurt at all (after 3 babies-nothing hurts down there-hehe:). It dilates you to a 5 and then falls out. They said it could take 4-6 hours, but probably less since it was my 4th baby.

About one hour later when I got up to pee it fell out. The dr. came to check me and I was dilated to a 5-officially active labor.

I was still in a bit of a shock this was all happening and still did not know how I wanted to bring this baby in the world. I asked Dr. Haver what would be the quickest way for her to come without having to worry about my blood pressure rising or having magnesium (explanation below). She said that she would break my water, do an epidural, and then start pitocin, but we could do whatever I wanted.

I said, ok, I need some time to think about this. I knew if I wanted to go all natural then I did not want any of that. Even breaking my water would make it more painful faster. But I was also worried that I would have to have magnesium if I went too long and my blood pressure went too high. I had it with Peyton, and it is very common to give women with high blood pressure in labor so they will not have a seizure. Its all natural, just a mineral, but its giving in large doses through an iv during the entire labor, and for many hours after the birth. It makes you sick as a dog. I barely remember the 24 hours after Peyton’s birth because I felt so awful. You also cannot get out of bed for hours after birth with it. I did NOT want that again. So I kept asking what I needed to do to avoid it! I had to get my blood pressure down and the baby out.

Thankfully, I had been to my sister’s births and she had to labor on her left side to keep her blood pressure down so she could have a home birth. I used her experience and moved to my left side. It kept my blood pressure in a more manageable range and after begging my dr. to give me a little more time without magnesium, it actually worked!

But back to my delimna-a medicated or un-medicated birth.

By this time I had been dilated to a 5 for over an hour and had no contractions. I knew something was off with me emotionally, that I was holding back my labor, so I went to the bathroom alone to think. I had to come to terms that this baby was coming today, I was not going to get my week of meditation to work through some Trek emotions, and I had to engage in this labor now. I also only had an IV of fluids hooked up to me with hep-lock, so I was able to choose any path I wanted at this point medically. And that is what I felt like in that moment-open to anything.

So I talked to Trek, I talked to my sweet little girl in my womb, and I decided to sit on the toilet (a sure way to get some strong contractions) and see how I felt. I sat down and felt my first “real” contraction start to build, about 1/2 through it, I stopped the contraction and it faded away. I realized in that moment, that I was not emotionally ready for the pain of labor, I wanted this to be a peaceful and pain free birth, and I wanted to be open to those around me, not inside of myself working through pain-I felt like I had done so much of that the past 2 years.

With Trek’s un-medicated birth I LOVED being inside myself and working through the pains of bringing him out, it was so spiritual and freeing. It was just not what I wanted in that moment for this birth. I wanted to be able to look around and watch Jarrett and Peyton and Conner’s faces and just take it all in.

I walked out and it was only Jarrett, I told him I wanted an epidural and I was ready to have our baby girl. Jarrett being the best labor and birth partner said, ok!

We called our Dr. and she broke my water (still no contractions). A few minutes later the epidural lady came in pushing a cart. It reminded me of a candy cart and that she was there to bring me a treat-I laughed out loud. She was so kind. I asked her for a low dose, I wanted to be able to feel when I needed to push. I sat up and she got started.

I felt like I was in a very peaceful place, as soon as she put in the needle, I had the biggest contraction and I started sobbing. It was the biggest relief, and I knew I had made the right choice. All the nurses ran over to make sure I was ok, and I told them that I was sooo happy that I was having a baby today, it was all perfect, and I was finally ready.

they started warming the baby’s bed at this point:)

At this point, I had been on this journey from induction through the first phase of labor for 8 hours. This is the longest out of all 4 children. It is the morning of May 17, 2014.

So now, around 6 am, I have my epidural, my water is broke, I am dilated to a 5, and I am having contractions. I feel them in the lower middle of my uterus and on a pain scale they were a 5-6, compared to a 9-10 with Trek, and a 1-2 with Peyton and Conner’s births (with strong epidurals). It was perfect, I loved feeling her working her way through my body, but also being in control of the pain. Jarrett called Amanda (my sister) and told her to bring the boys and come to the hospital!!! yeah-my little men!!!

I labored and talked and laughed with Jarrett for the next hour. My sister and Peyton and Conner got there and about the time they did I threw up. I knew this was a sign that I was getting close and probably in transition. Conner hid in the bathroom b/c he is grossed out by throwing up-ha! I finished and got soo excited-she was about to be here!!!

Conner helping mama

“ok, this is boring, when’s the fun start?!” hehe

refreshing my make-up, I always do my hair and make-up before birth-haha:)

Dr. Haver getting me all fixed up for birth

about to be a family of 6-eeeeee!

Conner pushing the epidural button for me-hehe

ha! I look like  I just had my epidural button pushed:)

ice chips

throwing up-it’s time!

Dr. Haver came in and started to get all set up. We gave Amanda, my camera and video camera and said good luck handling them both! Dr. Haver taught the boys how to help me count through a push and asked them who wanted to cut the cord-they both wanted to, but Peyton said Conner could.

they were soo cute and giddy for their sister!

Conner making sure he was in position to grab the right scissors for the cord cutting

Jarrett, Peyton, Conner, and Amanda were all down below watching and waiting for the baby girl to come! Dr. Haver was so sweet and had already gotten to know the boys since they came to all of my appts. She had let them do the doppler and listen to the baby’s heart beat each time they came. She knew they would be in the room and was soo helpful and sweet to them. It was a very special time for our family.

waiting for sister!

At this point I can feel the baby working her way down. I asked Dr. Haver if I could reach inside and touch her. So I did and I could feel her head about 4 inches inside of me. It was amazing!

I sat up and got ready to start pushing. Dr. Haver told me to just push when I felt like it.

Jarrett asked Dr. Haver if he could catch the baby, she said yes, but then I said, “NO! You got to catch Trek, I am catching this baby!” So I sat up even more and Dr. Haver said she would help me.

I started to feel when I needed to push and started working my baby girl out. The boys were counting and everyone was smiling.

I will remember that scene for the rest of my life.

I had episiotomies with Peyton and Conner and tore with Trek. I told Dr. Haver that if I needed an episiotomy to use lidocaine because my epidural was not strong enough and I could feel down there! She said ,no, she was not cutting me! The nurse then told me they don’t really do that anymore. So Dr. Haver was helping me down there not to tear.

My epidural was not working around the vagina area. I was feeling the ring of fire, oh lord, I was feeling it!

I was pushing when I needed to, no one was telling me, so that was relaxing, but then it started to burn! Dr. Haver was kindly trying to get me to slow down the pushes, so I could stretch naturally and not tear, but I finally had to just push through it. I did not care if I tore at that point! I let out a birth pushing noise and pushed her beautiful little head out. Dr. Haver told me to reach down and I did, and pulled that sweet little girl right out of me. It was beautiful and so amazing.

pulling Vesper out! just hatched:)

The boys and Jarrett crowded around me, we are all in HEAVEN! Laughing, and smiling, and all talking at once. She is a girl! She has brown hair! She’s perfect! She’s beautiful! She’s so tiny! And then Peyton started to cry and then I did too. It was the happiest moment. She was truly our rainbow baby.

Jarrett has a little girl now

these precious boys have a sister-those faces!!!

and I have a daughter, a beautiful daughter

Peyton saying he was so happy he could dance:)

she is a wonderful nurser

she’s perfect

Conner showing our nurse Trek’s picture

Conner’s sweet face looking at Trek’s

Vesper Irissa Ingram was born at 8:15 am on May 17th, 2014. She weighed 6 lbs exactly, and was 20 inches long. She was early (probably about 35 weeks old), so after 1 hour of skin to skin. (I would have asked for it, but it was hospital policy-cool!), she went to the nursery for oxygen. Jarrett went with her (he texted me pics the whole time:), and thankfully she was back in my arms in 30 minutes and never left again.

She was breathing funny, so they had to take her to the nursery to dry out her lungs with some oxygen

thankfully she was calm after our hour together, and with her daddy near by, so she did not cry

she has the most hair of any of our babies, and its still here and growing more:)

Conner got to hold Vesper first, since Peyton got to hold Trek first 3 years ago (they remembered-hehe:)

The boys went home with my sister, and Jarrett and I stared at our baby for the rest of the day, we have not stopped since! We decided that night that she was Vesper. We had a few names, but that was our favorite the whole pregnancy and after meeting her, it fit perfect-our little “evening star/prayer”. And we always knew her middle name would be Irissa “Goddess of the Rainbow”, since she is our beautiful rainbow baby.

Jarrett went down to the gift shop to get her a girl doll:)

My milk came in the first day, as opposed to the 2nd or 3rd day with the boys. The nurse said that was normal with more pregnancies. Vesper latched on and breastfed perfectly right away and still breastfeeds about every hour, just like her brothers did.

We spent the next 2 days in the hospital and I would not let her out of my sight! They did all her tests while she breastfed and I gave her her first bath. My blood pressure stayed high and she was a little jaundice, her doctors and mine wanted us to stay one extra day, but we could not wait to get home! They let us go, and we packed up our little angel and went home.

I forgot to bring a shirt to wear home, so I had to wear my night gown. I forgot shoes when I went home with Trek from the hospital-ha!

going home from the Maui hospital shoeless with baby Trek:)

Her going-home outfit I bought her did not even kind of fit (way to big). So my sister ran to Walmart to get her a preemie outfit to wear home.

one last nursing session before the drive home:)

even after 4 children, I am still equally amazed at how teeny tiny they are in the carseat!

We got home to a clean house (thank you Amanda!), 2 happy big brothers, and my parents who had just flew in from Colorado. Jarrett had the week off and we all lived in Vesper land. We still are on our baby moon almost 6 months later, I stay in my nightgown most days and the boys still fight over holding her (that includes Jarrett). It has been amazing! We miss our baby Trek, and think and talk of him often. He would have been so much fun to watch-a 3 year old with a little baby. I have his clothes and Vesper has been wearing his teeny t-shirts to sleep in some nights.We are so lucky to have 4 beautiful and perfect children. Vesper is the most beautiful completion to our family.